Beyond the wedding preparations, your event prompts you to reflect and communicate with your partner on certain important aspects of married life.
Lately, it happens to you not to speak only of the wedding decoration but also of the expectations that you have towards each other as well as your plans! A great relationship is built on a good understanding, but sometimes one of you feels like certain things are missing. It’s time to talk about it.
Today, gentlemen, you are going to find out what women would particularly appreciate from you or what may be missing if you don’t pay attention to the following points!
1. Surprises from time to time.
An improvised outing to the cinema during the week, a romantic dinner, a spur-of-the-moment getaway, a little gift for no particular reason, surprises spice up everyday life and allow you to create special one-to-one moments, if necessary. in all couples.
They remind us that the other is important to us and rekindle the laziness of those who love each other.
2. Shared Activities.
Spending time together away from home will bring you together. You can introduce your other half to an activity that you are passionate about, then discover one of theirs with them. Play a common sport or participate in new enriching experiences.
3. Take care of each other.
Empathy is essential in a couple! Not sharing the same moods at all times does not mean that we cannot put ourselves in the other’s shoes, listen to them and support them instead of remaining in the misunderstanding of a situation.
If you are having a stressful day or if your partner is in pain, be there and offer comfort.
4. Feeling loved as you are.
A little compliment is always welcome and shows that you are attentive to your loved one. Knowing how to accept that we do not always have to be on our thirty-one is very important, women are too often used to being required to take care of their physique and sometimes feel under pressure as to their appearance.
They will therefore appreciate knowing that some faults do not matter to you, just like yours do not.
It’s all silly but taking a real interest in your day, work meetings, or family is the attention that will be greatly appreciated.
Ask him questions, remember important dates and everything that matters to him so that your daily life is shared in the vast majority.
Long hours of nervousness are not healthy. It is better to make an effort to let the anger subside and be able to discuss problems like two adults.
Advice, support, and knowing how to calmly discuss the differences to be resolved can save a couple! Communication is essential for a successful and trusting relationship.
7. Message from time to time.
Message each other during the day just to say “I love you”, leave a sweet little note on the table when you wake up, it’s always nice to know that you are thinking of each other even when you are not. you don’t see.
8. A little space.
It is also pleasant and necessary to spend time alone. You will miss yourself more if you plan a few parties with only your friends, trips with friends and activities just for you.
Respecting those moments without being jealous or feeling helpless shows just how mature and healthy your relationship is.
9. Be unique.
Avoid comparisons when talking to your other half. She is unique. Your past stories are no secret, but if your ex is a pervasive theme in your conversations, you risk creating unnecessary and unfortunate concerns in your relationship.
10. A fair distribution of tasks.
Don’t say you’re helping him! When it comes to household chores, this phrase is unwelcome. You assume that she is the one who has to take care of everything and that your occasional participation in certain tasks is enough.
It is a mistaken view. Living as a couple is also about the fair sharing of household chores and the organization of your life together.
Your expectations are not as different as you might imagine. Men and women often have a similar or even identical vision of the couple. If you have already celebrated your original wedding, you surely already have the recipe for happiness in your possession.
Plus, you know your partner better than anyone else. Do not lose sight of the things that make you happy and unite you so that your good understanding lasts forever!